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Glossary

The words used on this site, in plain English.

Name it
Saying clearly what is happening and what I’m feeling, in plain words. The first step.
Tame it
Seeing what is really going on, separating it from the story I tell about it, and getting some control back.
Then act
Taking one sensible next step instead of spiralling.
One sensible next step
The smallest useful action I can take today. Not a plan for everything.
Spiralling
When one hard thought pulls in the next and the problem feels bigger than it is.
Agency
The sense that my choices still matter, even when much is out of my hands.
From loss of control to agency
The thread of every story here: how someone moved from things happening to them, back to choosing what they do next.
Forms of capital
A lens, not career advice: the different kinds of wealth a person has, such as skills, relationships, time and health, not only money. After Ethan Roland and Gregory Landua’s “8 Forms of Capital” (2011).
Life after AI
How everyday life, work and meaning change as AI takes over more tasks.
Survivor stories
The series of true stories on this site. See Stories.

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